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He who works the most wins.
At least, that's what I believed.
I grew a company from negative $500K to $4.5 million in revenue.
On paper? Success.
In reality? I was completely falling apart.
I lost my passion.
I lost my mind. Literally forgot how to open my own trunk.
I lost my will.
And I didn't even see it coming.
In this video, I'm sharing what burnout actually looked like for me. Not the Instagram version, the real one. The walks with my husband where all I could say was ”I'm just so unhappy.” The moment in a coaching session where it hit me like a ton of bricks.
And then I'll tell you what I did about it.
I took a 4-month sabbatical.
No email. No Slack. No meetings.
Just rest. And it terrified me.
Because when your identity is your work, stopping feels like dying.
But here's what I know now:
Rest is not weakness.
You are limited. And that's actually a good thing.
If you're running hard right now and something feels off, this video is for you.
Stop grinding. Start resting.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of ”fine.”
We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.
If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.
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Don't just exist. Show up.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?

P is for Physical Attraction

I is for Intellectual Attraction

E is for Emotional Attraction

S is for Spiritual Attraction
