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Revealing secrets on how to become the most attractive you can be Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually (or as us insiders call it...the PIES). Listen to weekly episodes.
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How can you own the room and speak with confidence?
Nobody cares if your palms are sweaty. Nobody cares if your voice shakes. Nobody cares if you're secretly terrified.
They care if you command the space you're in.
In this episode, I sit down with Eva Daniel, former speech writer at Ramsey Solutions, 11 years at Focus on the Family, now a speech coach to leaders, to break down what it actually takes to own a room.
Stage. Zoom. Boardroom. Bible study. Tuesday team meeting.
Ground your feet. Take the pause. Open your palms. Hold the thought.
That's the game.
We get into the pause that resets the entire room before you say a word, why you should never end on a Q&A (you just handed a stranger the mic), the ”queso” moment that will change how you hear yourself forever, and the SPARK framework for walking in with something worth saying.
If you've ever shrunk in a meeting, rushed through a presentation, or walked off stage wishing you'd been bigger in the moment… this one's for you.
Get Eva's 12 Questions To Write A Killer Speech Here: speakshop.com
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?

P is for Physical Attraction

I is for Intellectual Attraction

E is for Emotional Attraction

S is for Spiritual Attraction
