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You know that meme. The dog sitting in a room that's completely on fire, saying ”this is fine.”
What do you do when that's actually your life?
In this video, I want to talk about the thing most of us do when something hard is sitting right in the middle of our path. We avoid it. We walk around it. We wait for it to move on its own.
But here's what I've learned. The obstacle is the way.
The conversation you've been dreading for months, maybe even years. The boundary you're scared to set. The thing you keep skipping because it's uncomfortable. That's usually the exact thing you need to do to grow.
I'll share the story of a hike that did not go as planned, the conversation with my sister I put off for 20 years, and the difference between having a hard conversation for personal gain versus relationship gain.
Because most of the time, the thing you're avoiding isn't the end of you. It's the start of the strength you didn't know you had.
So today, ask yourself: what's the hard thing you keep walking around?
Then go do it.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of ”fine.”
We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?
P is for Physical Attraction
I is for Intellectual Attraction
E is for Emotional Attraction
S is for Spiritual Attraction
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I want to help you become the best that you can be Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally, and Spiritually.
For the past 5 years, I have helped thousands of people transform their lives, overcome tough situations, and choose to focus on what they can control – their PIES. And they have seen amazing results.
Weight lost, college degrees earned, relationships restored, and faith found. You can do this, too. Let me help.
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