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Everyone wants to sprint through the hard part of marriage.
I understand why. When there's been infidelity. When trust has been broken. When you feel more like roommates than husband and wife. You want it over as fast as you possibly can.
But I'll tell you something that surprises a lot of people. The faster a reconciliation happens, the bigger the red flag it is to me.
Marriage was never meant to be a sprint. It's a marathon.
In this episode, I share what running has taught me about the hardest seasons of a relationship. You don't run the hills. You walk them. Because when you try to summit a hill as fast as you can, you reach the top exhausted, overexerted, and ready to quit. But when you walk it, slow and intentional, you get to the top with enough left in you to keep going.
That's what I want for your marriage. Not just surviving until death do you part. Actually enjoying each other the whole way there.
Then we get into your questions. How do you know when you've stood long enough after a divorce, and what's the difference between standing around and actually moving forward. What to do when your spouse files and you're the one who removed the obstacle. And how to hold onto your marriage when your spouse walks away from the faith that once held you both together.
We also open the word together in Psalm 139. A study on the God who searches you, knows every part of you, and still calls you fearfully and wonderfully made.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of ”fine.”
We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.
If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?
P is for Physical Attraction
I is for Intellectual Attraction
E is for Emotional Attraction
S is for Spiritual Attraction
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I want to help you become the best that you can be Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally, and Spiritually.
For the past 5 years, I have helped thousands of people transform their lives, overcome tough situations, and choose to focus on what they can control – their PIES. And they have seen amazing results.
Weight lost, college degrees earned, relationships restored, and faith found. You can do this, too. Let me help.
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