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It Starts With ATTRACTION
Revealing secrets on how to become the most attractive you can be Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually (or as us insiders call it...the PIES). Listen to weekly episodes.
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For the first time on the show, I took your calls live. No scripts. No prep. Just real people in real crises telling me what's happening in their marriage and asking me what to do next.
Bhavesh in London caught his wife with a coworker, and now she's filed for divorce and put a restraining order on him. He's done everything she ever asked him to do, and she treats him like he's dead. He wants to know if he should give up.
Cindy in North Carolina had an emotional affair three years ago. Her husband says he'll leave the day their youngest turns 18. She's trying to work on herself, but she can't stop watching him. She wants to know how to take her eyes off him and put them back on her.
Tommy in Oklahoma was married 28 years when his wife walked out with no explanation. Now she's living with another woman, and the only time they talk is in a courtroom. He wants to know how to get her home.
If you're in any of these situations, one of these calls is going to sound a lot like your life.
Listen for what I tell them. Then do it.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of ”fine.”
We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.
If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.
New episodes every Thursday.
Don't just exist. Show up.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?

P is for Physical Attraction

I is for Intellectual Attraction

E is for Emotional Attraction

S is for Spiritual Attraction
