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How do you prove to your spouse that you’ve really changed?
It’s one thing to say you’re different. It’s another thing for your spouse to actually believe that the change is real, especially when there have been years of hurt, broken trust, or patterns that keep resurfacing.
In this episode, I’m taking live calls from people facing difficult situations in their marriages and their lives.
One caller has been separated from his wife for eight months and is now facing divorce. He believes he’s made significant changes in how he handles his anger, but his wife still isn’t convinced. So what does she actually need to see from him? And how can he begin rebuilding a sense of safety without constantly trying to convince her to save the marriage?
I also talk with a woman whose struggle with holding onto years of papers and belongings is keeping her from moving forward with her husband, and we break down how to make progress when you know what you need to do but still struggle to do it.
Then, I talk with a woman whose husband left during an affair. Now the affair may be over, his behavior toward her has started to change, and she’s wondering whether it’s time to tell him again that she still loves him, forgives him, and wants their marriage to work.
I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.
The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of ”fine.”
We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.
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What are the PIES of Attraction?

P is for Physical Attraction

I is for Intellectual Attraction

E is for Emotional Attraction

S is for Spiritual Attraction
